17 potent Questions that victims of domestic violence are haunted by

The Questions that victims of domestic violence (DV) ask are potent in finding their sanity. These questions are charged with the 5 major emotions we constantly run in our internal world. These questions are asked with great emotional conviction and energy. These questions are asked to seek answers. These are questions that are answered by the subconscious mind that runs primordially and purposefully on their mission to keep your probability of survival as its highest priority. With the basic exception that human beings are one of the few species that attack for control without killing the other for food. This is where the internal “DV Dance” © blueprint is shaped, stored and operates from. This is where the decisions based on survival come from.

Let’s get straight to it.
The following are some common main questions that lurk in the minds of people faced with surviving in a domestic violent relationship.

How can I fix this?

Why is this happening to me?

Why me?

Why does he do that to me?

Why does he abuse me?

What’s wrong with him? What’s wrong with me?

Why do women stay stuck in Domestic Violence?

Why can’t I just get out?

Why AM I so dumb?

Why didn’t I get out earlier?

Why isn’t the government putting a stop to DV?

How is it that he gets away with it?

Why is the court not helping me in not getting abused?

How can he even hit another human being, let alone me? Who does that?

When is he going to change?

Why is he getting away with it?

Why are there not enough penalties so they can stop hitting me?

Why bother stopping?

What did I do so badly for him to hit me?

What will my family say?

What will my friends and workplace say?

What will they think of me?

Why can’t he just change?

What about me?

How can he do this to us?

How can he hit me?

How can he dare to hit his children, our children?

What the hell is wrong with him?

What the hell is wrong with me?

Where can I go?

Who will believe me?

Why will they believe me?

Nobody cares – why would they?

Potent.

Deadly.

These questions fill you with FEAR.

These questions do NOT enable you.

They actually keep you stuck and binds you even further into the disempowering answer that you have always gotten. Now let’s say, just for a moment, you changed that question into “How can I feel more love, peace, joy in this moment?” then how would that make you feel? It would change how you feel. It would change the expression on your face. It would change the way you stand or sit. It would certainly change your breathing rate.

Just 1 question.

Now if we changed the question to match your own value systems and your inner -You then imagine what a difference that would make to your life. If you implemented it and always practiced it then it would change your life.

This is what I am talking about.

The above list of questions keeps you stuck. So why do you ask it every time you have a problem? It’s the only way you know how to. It’s the only way – you decided a very long time ago – on how you should protect yourself and how you would maintain homeostasis(balance) of the environment around you and the environment in your mind. You have to survive and nothing else.

To get unstuck you need to change your inner chatter – your inner question. Ask us how.